Monday, February 4, 2013

Life Lessons Learned: Number Two

Last weekend C and I went to a house warming party for some friends.  We had completely forgotten about it until about an hour after it started. We were still in our PJ’s on the couch when we realized it and didn’t really want to go, but I thought since we had RSVP’d that we better go.
I’m glad we did. We had a lot of fun!
The host couple is currently expecting a baby so the wife obviously wasn’t drinking. The husband on the other hand…..definitely was. You could tell he was drunk but everyone was having fun and it definitely wasn’t obnoxious or out of hand.
I noticed the wife was getting increasingly frustrated and upset with him.  I do this when C drinks too.  I get so annoyed and frustrated trying to deal with him. I feel like because he is “mine” I have to be the one to babysit him.
Watching the two of them this week I realized that what I find annoying and frustrating….no one else even notices!  I bet half the time they actually LIKE it! I am the only one who is so worried that he is acting like an idiot or whatnot. 
So…I am going to try to loosen my “reins” when we are out.  I clearly don’t need to worry like I do!
(Hmmm….this “worry” thing seems to be a recurring thing in my life)


  1. I'm a new follower so I thought I'd say hi. I find myself acting this same way with my husband (feeling like I need to watch him). Sounds like maybe it's normal behavior? Who knows. I don't particularly enjoy it though; because it makes me feel naggy/motherly.

    xo Ami
    a champagne dream

    1. Hello! Haha glad to hear that it's "normal" :)

  2. Women are screwed up. Leave him alone and worry about yourself.



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